One minute, life is ticking along as normal, and then, out of nowhere, BOOM! you are overwhelmed with horrible, painful emotions. Suddenly, you are behaving in ways you never wanted to behave, saying things you wish you hadn’t, and watching your partner wanting to be anywhere else but here with you.
How did jealousy get so intense, so fast, and why can’t you seem to calm down and behave the way you want to?
It’s just as bad when you are on the receiving end. Your sweet, loving partner has suddenly become a crazy person, all needy and smothering, or blaming and accusing you of not loving them, or, worst of all, going totally cold and rejecting, for no real reason that you can see.
Jealousy is a corrosive poison in relationships. Nobody likes it, but we are never taught what to do with it, so it keeps raising its ugly green head, turning us or our partner into an emotionally anguished wreck, and totally destroying the love and harmony in our relationships.
The truth is that jealousy can be overcome. It is not inevitable. It is not all-powerful. Once you understand some simple facts about the way our minds and emotions interact, you can take control of your life and your relationships, for good.
The media and popular culture create an image that jealousy is natural and inescapable, and even portray it as an expression of love (it’s not).
We get no help from our parents and teachers either. They grew up with the same media and popular culture.
The information about how to gain control of our minds and emotions has always existed, but has never been widely known. Now, you have the opportunity to study the accumulated wisdom of centuries of spiritual masters, and the new discoveries of modern science, and gain this power for yourself.
Whether is it your jealousy, or your partner’s, Raffaello’s Un-Jealous Yourself course gives you the tools you need to restore peace and harmony to your relationship.
The course is very well laid out, with a step-by-step approach I appreciated. The course is strong because it deals with one big issue (jealousy) in-depth, instead of trying to solve every problem in the world. Production quality was solid, and Raffaello was very pleasant to listen to. But in the end what matters is it's effectiveness. And this stuff just works. Well. Give it a shot. It's worth it.
How does a desperately insecure and jealous Italian become a world-renowned relationship expert and jealousy whisperer … ?
I’m Raffaello, the creator of the “Un-Jealous Yourself” program, and author of the Amazon Best-Seller “Conscious Relationships: The Art of Bringing Awareness to Intimacy & Sexuality”.
I used to be hyper-controlling, always on guard, and constantly anxious that my partner would leave me for someone else. It was so unbearable, that I decided to quit my job, change my life, and find a way to tackle jealousy, once and for all.
I started studying relationships, travelled around the world in search of relationship wisdom, experimented with different techniques for dealing with jealousy, and challenged my jealous feelings in every way I could imagine.
I have spent more than twelve years studying and experimenting with different forms of relationships, drawing from the wisdom of the East (Tantra, Yoga) and of the West (sexology, relationship studies.)
Everything I teach is based on first hand experiences and real world examples.
Relationships haven’t been an easy path for me, as I used to be stuck in patterns of jealousy and control. Through years of hard work, I came to heal those wounds, and vowed to help others undergo a similar process of growth.
I have coached dozens of people through difficult impasses in their intimate life with my one on one coaching programs. I have also created The Network of Love, an international workshop on conscious relationships, which I have led in several countries across Asia and Europe. And I’m making the process of Un-Jealousing Yourself available to you today!
In case you need a bit more encouragement to open that can of worms, discover five big benefits of un-jealousing yourself!
Identify the extent to which jealousy is shaping your intimate relationships.
What if the behavior caused by jealousy could actually eat away at the foundations of a relationship? Left untreated, could jealousy bring about the very outcome you most fear?
Learn how to understand and process emotions without making them stronger, expanding their reach, or getting lost in them.
Now that you have identified the various aspects of your jealousy, learn how to deal with them. Which ones require a conversation with your partner? Which ones can you release by yourself? How do you manage the universal human fear of change?
So conversations about emotions always seem to go badly? Learn how to speak about your feelings in a way that makes them easy for your partner to hear.
You’ll learn Aspecting, a powerful technique dealing with your fear, and you’ll receive an audio meditation for jealousy.
What is the opposite of jealousy? Developing compersion is one of the most powerful ways to cut jealousy at its roots.
Walk with Raffaello through his lifelong journey from insecurity, craziness, and despair to confidence, freedom and love.
Popular culture assumes that jealousy is universal, healthy, and a natural expression of love. How true are those assumptions?
Time to decide – what kind of relationship do you intend to create in the future? Will you keep doing what you have always done, and keep getting what you have always got? Or will you try something different this time?
Take a journey of self-discovery, and explore the anatomy of your own jealous feelings. What are the underlying emotions feeding into the jealousy?
Sometimes, we genuinely need something from our partners that we are not getting, or not getting enough of. Learn how to identify your needs, and determine whether they are being fulfilled.
Giraffes are the creatures with the largest heart. Loving language is the most effective way to communicate, but when we are upset, it can be easy to fall into blaming and accusing. Learn how to reframe your communications into an act of love, even when talking about intense and painful subjects.
Do we need a different approach to jealousy when there really is someone else? How can we possibly move past it when our partner has cheated?
What better person to learn from, than someone who has already achieved the result you want?
Raffaello freely admits that he was crippled by jealousy in his early relationships. If someone as desperately insecure and jealous as he was can reach peace and equilibrium, then you can, too.
This kind of work is generally suitable for people to do alone. If you have mental health issues, make sure your therapist supports you through the course. Otherwise, if you have any concerns about doing this alone, you can always ask a friend or lover to provide encouragement and support.
First of all, congratulations! There aren’t many people in the world who do not experience jealousy at all. Nevertheless, even if you don’t experience jealousy, you will often have to deal with other people’s jealousy. This course will help you understand how jealous people feel, and you will get powerful tools to help them overcome their own jealousy.
This work can all be done while you are single. If you can remember times when you were jealous, you have everything you need.
Yes, we encourage you to share this life-changing course with your partner.
Studies have shown that the fastest, most effective way to treat jealousy is through behavior change, rather than by talking therapy. Jealousy is a habit, not a mental illness. Quitting a bad habit takes willpower, dedication, and time, but it doesn’t require psychotherapy.
Some decisions in life are irreversible. This is not one of them. If you are super excited and join the course now, but realize in a few days that you don’t like what you bought… no problem. Just shoot us an email within 15 days, and we’ll refund you 100%. No hard feelings!!
If you are unsure, we encourage you to simply give it a try. If you don’t like it, the money will be back on your Credit Card before you even notice.
Yes, this course works on any device that has a web browser. All you need is internet access that is capable of streaming videos. That means it works great on smartphones (iPhone, Android and more), tablets, laptops, etc.
This simple course offers so many beautiful techniques to address jealousy. I understand this emotion, how it can be helpful, and how to overcome it when it’s not. SO much better now. Highly recommend. Thanks Raffaello!
This course is great! Before I took this course I used to see jealousy as something that is difficult to change, almost natural. But this course made me reflect on the root of jealousy and that it can be overcome. The instructor is engaging and friendly. What I find really inspiring is that he has been able to overcome his own jealousy and is now on a mission to help you achieve the same.
Very interesting topic explained with great examples…. Sometimes just thinking about jealousy makes my stomach churn because of how much it affects me. Raffaello explains in a way that you feel he understands you and knows he can help you out of the hole!
I took this course out of curiosity and realized that jealousy has been seeping more into my life than I was aware of! It’s a good reminder that we are in charge of our own happiness. The course is well structured with lots of information and great tips. The lectures are engaging, to the point, and well presented. I found the course not only helpful for working with jealousy, but also to get more insight into my emotions and how to deal with them. Can highly recommend it!
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